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You’re so full of crap.

by Whatever []
Published on 21/6/07 in People
Yeah, sure, it’s their life and they can do whatever they feel like, but: What the fuck!?
Recently things in my life has kind of changed: my girlfriend went from anti-manic-depressiveness to being depressed as hell and super destructive, and my mate, who would never "drink on principal", has suddenly started drinking, partying and doing drugs.

Yeah, sure, it's their life and they can do whatever they feel like, but: What the fuck!? I don't care what you guys do, as long as you have reason for it.
They've both gone loony and they think that I'm okay with it.

First of all, my depressed friend screwed up her studies so she thought: "Heey, why don't let it go out upon everyone else and myself at the same time? I'll kill two birds with one stone, and it'll make me miserable. What a deal. Hurray!"

Once, while having this IM conversation she suddenly pasted this "quote" about manic-depressiveness containing the so-called "symptoms" of being depressed. I'm not sure what it was word for word, but among the mentioned was: lack of sleep and lack of hunger.

...yeah? And? I skip my food sometimes just because I don't really notice that my belly-welly is hungry, but that doesn't make me depressed.
Nor considering the lack of sleep.
In fact, I should be really depressed if I think about my sleeping habits.

But, this so-called, self-diagnosed depressiveness isn't something that she wants to talk about. Quite the contrary; when sitting together during lunch she ignores me. It's like I'm not even there. I can talk to her and she'll just look at "the pretty birdies anywhere else", not responding.
Well, good for you then.
Just sit there and be mad at yourself/me/everyone/studies/whatever.

My theory is that she isn't really depressed, but needs a reason to just "leave" and fuck the world.
But, enough about her. Over to my suddenly drunkard mate.

This premature, childish, selfish, never-getting-laid friend of mine who, as mentioned before, would never drink on principal, has totally lost it.
I can remember that last year, when I got drunk on this party he attended to, he wouldn't talk to me for a week.

I didn't really get why he was that upset. Sure, I puked, but except for that I didn't do anything stupid, and since that time I haven't been drunk at parties. But, I realize now.
He was upset because he wasn't drinking too.
Yeah, way to go, dipshit. Since you didn't do it then, you're doing it now.

He's always coming over to me telling me all about those totally wild parties he's been too lately, asking in a rhetorical matter: "why weren't you there?" Making me want to go: "Because I was busy..doing grown-up-matters like
work?"

Sure, a party isn't all that bad, I love a good party, but he doesn't give a crap about anything else anymore. And, since he's obviously grown immune to alcohol, he's suddenly jumped over to drugs.

Yeah, good for you, Mr. Hardcore.

You might ask yourself what kind of friend I am for writing this way about my friends, but nobody's perfect.
I'm just writing about their way lately, because I know their still "there" somewhere under this sudden dumbness.

Meanwhile.. I'll just wait for it to pass.

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Courtney Scott
Sure maybe she is faking her depression, but if not people need to understand that ALL mental illnesses are not by choice but an imbalance of chemicals in the brain. Written on 24/7/07

Increzut

Whatever
Of course, someone just had to say something that doesn't really have anything to do with what I actually wrote, just to show off their "skillz". Did I write about someone else than the one that's faking her depression? No. Written on 10/8/07

rence

rence mccusker
I would show them what you wrote here...maturity levels notwithstanding honesty seems the best policy…I’d say you’re frustration is a sign of concern…but I don’t doubt for a second that some will interpret your candor for pettiness (and they might be right - I don’t know)…Do you normally walk on eggshells around them? Would they be put off by your tone and frankness? You know them best…and if the situation is more complicated for them than you realized it ought to be worth dealing with before your relationships deteriorate. Of course finding out you don’t know someone as thoroughly as you once assumed can be more than a little unsettling…

I’m not entirely sure you should wait for it to pass. If there is a serious issue beyond the usual terrible twos-preteen-teen-twenty something-middle age-mid life-geriatric-deathbed- crisis/angst…(wait a minute…is there a period in anyone’s life when crisis doesn’t rear its ugly head? Real or imagined…) Yeah, I’d deal now than later…but keep in mind no-one needs a reason to do anything and need not justify it to anyone I suppose…

Long story short: if you truly give a shit then go give some shit and see where the chips fall…you might find something out about them and just as importantly about yourself …or you might just help a friend who needs it…either way its win-win even when it hurts…
Written on 26/10/07

rence

rence mccusker
hope i didnt lose the plot here... Written on 26/10/07

Magicmerlin

Merlin Fothworth
Ok sounds stupid but i have been to see a hypnotist and trust me it works great ;-)

Signature: NLP Hypnotist Written on 4/8/08

Jezzk

Jayden
You misspelt 'their' at the end. It's meant to be 'they're'.... =D

Good luck with that by the way. Written on 21/1/08

IAD

Vidar
"so called "symptoms" of depression"

Wow. I'm stunned. You really need to grow up.

Mental problems are real enough, and there are symptoms.

Lack of sleep and lack of hunger are amongst other things indications of depression.

If your friend isn't doing to well in school it's another indication that she might actually be having some problems.

You're the reason so many people seem to think depression isn't a real problem but something people lie about so they have an excuse to be lazy.

I'm so glad I'm not your friend.


"My theory is that she isn't really depressed, but needs a reason to just "leave" and fuck the world. "

If she needs a reason to just "leave" then that's quite the indication that she's actually having problems. Written on 15/5/08

Increzut

Whatever
Hoho, hva var liksom meningen med det, sladrehank?
Kunne du ikke bare liek ignorere det faktumet at jeg hadde en eller annen dårlig dag og skrev noe tull en eller annen, annen dag, og kom over det dagen eller dagene etterpå, sånn i stedet for å løpe til mamma og fortelle at jeg smurte hunden inn i margarin fordi jeg var skuffet og sint, noe som nå gir meg husarrest for resten av livet? For nei, det er ikke hyggelig. Hei på deg, forresten.
Hva har du med meg å gjøre og hvorfor har du lyst å gi meg hodepine?
Er det en eller annen konkurranse jeg har misset oppslaget på eller? "Jeg er en bedre venn enn deg og derfor så skal jeg fortelle dette til henne sånn at hun kan bli miserabel, du kan bli miserabel, og sånn at jeg kanskje får henne enda mer for meg selv og føle meg bedre", for obviously så mener du at du kjenner vedkommende bedre enn meg, og hell, kanskje du gjør det, what would I know, men det virker som om du markerer det ved å tisse allover meg og gjerne den andre personen i samme slengen sånn at du er helt sikker på at du får statert jeg-er-vedkommendes-venn-poenget helt klart og tydelig,og siden du er en så masse bedre venn så skal du gjøre vedkommende klar over at jeg tydeligvis ikke er det. Dude. Hva vet du anyways?

Jeg vet jo at mennesker kan være deppa, men som du også mest sannsynligvis er fult klar over så er det at det flertallet mennesker faktisk ikke egentlig, helt egentlig er det (ikke prøv å nekt for det, for da gjør du meg bare sint), og siden de egentlig bare mangler noe som, I dunno, kjærlighet eller et ligg så bruker de opp tiden til de menneskene som kanskje trenger det litt mer, og ja, kanskje vedkommende vi snakker om trenger det, kanskje ikke, men på det tidspunktet så valgte vår kjære bekjent å ikke snakke med meg om det eller om noe i det hele tatt egentlig så da ble jeg bare trist og ignorert og skrev no random shit on the internetz. Whatever. Takk for det. Nå får jeg ikke sove. Obviously så har jeg ikke lyst til at dette skal ligge på nettet lengre, og obviously så skulle jeg ønske vedkommende aldri "fant" det for jeg mener det jo ikke lengre, men jeg blir ikke kvitt det for det er ikke noen form for "slette"-knapp på dette, men takket være deg, Mr. Detective Dipshit så reddet du den mindre problematiske dagen min og gjorde den om til noe mindre fint og mindre bra bare fordi. Jeg vet ikke om jeg ser noen grunn til dette. Er det så at vedkommende i alle år har gått glipp av at jeg er en dårlig venn og du tenkte at du skulle gjøre vår vedkommende oppmerksom på det? Jada, tydeligvis så er dette stykke literatur ikke så egnet for å vise fram vennebåndene mine, men, c'mon. Du er en idiot om du ikke tror at jeg er glad i henne og hvis du tror at jeg mente det straks jeg postet det. Litt som alt her i livet mitt og hva som skjer, med andre ord, ja. Jeg er stor i kjeften, rask i fingra og holder sjeldent ting for meg selv, noe som ikke alltid er så bra, men det skjer. Jeg hadde håpet at dette bare kunne glemmes eventuelt bare ikke finnes, ever, fordi det er ikke noe jeg vil vise fram. Det er ikke noe jeg vil at jeg skal ha skrevet, men nå gidder jeg ikke mer, for jeg er bare sliten og frustrert over alt dette, så jeg har ikke tenkt å skrive mer.

Takk til deg. Written on 15/5/08

Increzut

Whatever
FLØ, FLØ. Teller jo ikke nå lengre, gjør det vel? Written on 15/5/08

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